I wish I could enjoy your company. I've tried here and there and the people I try to hold close. Those that I hold dear; many disappear.
Stranded with emotional feelings that I cannot express. Feelings for someone whom no longer talks to me.
I've tried to be there for someone. To look them in their eyes and see them smile.
Just a dear friend.
I pushed people away in defending you.
I put my feelings first because I didn't want to lose you.
In end you slipped away regardless of what may have happened.
I ruined it with my own despairty to be loved.
I hope you can forgive me one day. I hope to be able to say hi to you again someday.
Wednesday, December 11, 2013
Wednesday, February 27, 2013
Monday, February 11, 2013
Driving forward
Trying to catch my breath and push forward. Mustering the energy and to realize a year has already gone by.
I am lost in my affection for someone. There always seems to be a catch. Fast forward a few months and I'm in a bit of a limbo. I seem to become super affectionate towards inanimate objects. Things that I settle into a comfortable feeling but I over explain my affection towards said inanimate objects. I am often filled with lots of energetic thoughts when I seem to really like someone. However, I am unable to fully commit my feelings to her because she, at the moment, is not particularly interested in guys. Yet when we are in person she is okay with me being a bit PDA and trying to flirt with her.
This leaves me in a pickle as I have the poor habit of trying to manage the impossible. I seem to want to try to sway her feelings by being who I am and just showing her the kindness and sweet person I am.
I don't like being in this limbo feeling because I become all over the place. I become obsessive with things I usually do not mention or talk about as much. For example, I will go on about music and how amazingly beautiful they sound on my speakers or headphones more than usual.
I like her. I really do but I don't know if she has feelings towards me or not. It would feel like it but its hard to figure these things out. I am hoping for the best but looking forward to the best and the future.
February will be a busy month.
I am lost in my affection for someone. There always seems to be a catch. Fast forward a few months and I'm in a bit of a limbo. I seem to become super affectionate towards inanimate objects. Things that I settle into a comfortable feeling but I over explain my affection towards said inanimate objects. I am often filled with lots of energetic thoughts when I seem to really like someone. However, I am unable to fully commit my feelings to her because she, at the moment, is not particularly interested in guys. Yet when we are in person she is okay with me being a bit PDA and trying to flirt with her.
This leaves me in a pickle as I have the poor habit of trying to manage the impossible. I seem to want to try to sway her feelings by being who I am and just showing her the kindness and sweet person I am.
I don't like being in this limbo feeling because I become all over the place. I become obsessive with things I usually do not mention or talk about as much. For example, I will go on about music and how amazingly beautiful they sound on my speakers or headphones more than usual.
I like her. I really do but I don't know if she has feelings towards me or not. It would feel like it but its hard to figure these things out. I am hoping for the best but looking forward to the best and the future.
February will be a busy month.
Saturday, January 19, 2013
A happy smile for the day
I am a pretty mushy and affectionate person. Sometimes this gets me into trouble because it builds up and it just wants to go flying everywhere. It tends to happen when I have feelings for someone and I see a possible opportunity.It is like a flow of energy that just swooshes out and wants to wrap around someone. I often worry that I may be a bother or if my texts are bothering said person. It can be hard sometimes to know whether you are being bothersome or not. Texts can be unreliable at times where they don't receive it or that they are busy and simply not able to respond.
I met a girl sometime in summer and to keep things short this little trip will be a interesting and complex one.I honestly can say though that I am happy when she is around. Although nothing is official I notice the little things that subtly pull us together. It has given me a good chance to take things slowly and work out the little details. The challenges to pursue this relationship is unique in its own form to the typical trend. I feel confident about this and where things are going though. I find it hard being friends with girls. Not something I do well. I think mainly because of me wanting to be affectionate with someone and being friends often at times its cause we get along well and it leads me into wanting to search for more. The result of not having things go my way and its sub-consciously stuck there in my mind. I am; emotionally strong willed I think. Despite all the bad luck and pretty apparent emotional let downs i've been through I have never thought "I'm going to stop dating" or "I give up" or "It is not worth while". I am the type of person who likes to spend my time with someone special and have what I call my happy aura. I like sharing that energy and being able to see that person happy and smile is always a warm feeling.
A smile is a reminder that we are feeling well and are not stuck thinking about the bothersome things in the back of our minds. A smile sweeps away all the stress and unhappy things. I had a pretty good day yesterday being able to play Paintball and seeing someone special has turned a slow week into a better one. To find myself happy in the affection side of the department is something I have longed for and I hope for the best in this pursuit. She surely makes me smile when I am around her.
I met a girl sometime in summer and to keep things short this little trip will be a interesting and complex one.I honestly can say though that I am happy when she is around. Although nothing is official I notice the little things that subtly pull us together. It has given me a good chance to take things slowly and work out the little details. The challenges to pursue this relationship is unique in its own form to the typical trend. I feel confident about this and where things are going though. I find it hard being friends with girls. Not something I do well. I think mainly because of me wanting to be affectionate with someone and being friends often at times its cause we get along well and it leads me into wanting to search for more. The result of not having things go my way and its sub-consciously stuck there in my mind. I am; emotionally strong willed I think. Despite all the bad luck and pretty apparent emotional let downs i've been through I have never thought "I'm going to stop dating" or "I give up" or "It is not worth while". I am the type of person who likes to spend my time with someone special and have what I call my happy aura. I like sharing that energy and being able to see that person happy and smile is always a warm feeling.
A smile is a reminder that we are feeling well and are not stuck thinking about the bothersome things in the back of our minds. A smile sweeps away all the stress and unhappy things. I had a pretty good day yesterday being able to play Paintball and seeing someone special has turned a slow week into a better one. To find myself happy in the affection side of the department is something I have longed for and I hope for the best in this pursuit. She surely makes me smile when I am around her.
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